tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post7326188349330681232..comments2023-03-24T07:48:53.674-04:00Comments on Baby Wanted: Apply Within: Now what?Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03154636161249104743noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-32033130964442955682008-10-08T11:26:00.000-04:002008-10-08T11:26:00.000-04:00I have no answers, but I'm listening. Hugs to you ...I have no answers, but I'm listening. Hugs to you and V.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-57697326469833117132008-10-07T17:18:00.000-04:002008-10-07T17:18:00.000-04:00I just had a negative beta from my second FET. I'm...I just had a negative beta from my second FET. I'm sorry. There's nothing to say to make it better except that this community listens; they are grand. I hope you take the time for yourself and to grieve; it is a loss no matter how you look a things.<BR/><BR/>I wish you much luck.<BR/><BR/>We are listening.Hope2morrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00196437847799474686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-42638562790950484212008-10-06T14:09:00.000-04:002008-10-06T14:09:00.000-04:00i wish there was something i could say or do to ma...i wish there was something i could say or do to make you feel better. i know it's not really possible to take the pain away. maybe this last batch is filled with hard-core boxer-types that are ready to take to the mat and show you what they've got.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-86062055740265866462008-10-05T18:43:00.000-04:002008-10-05T18:43:00.000-04:00I think I understand where you are at right now - ...I think I understand where you are at right now - at least as much as someone else can. The heartache of another failure and the fear that it may never work. <BR/><BR/>I don't know if this helps, but my RE doesn't think there are many uterine issues out there. When I asked if that was why we weren't being successful with my eggs, he answered, "If there were a lot of uterine issues we wouldn't see 80% live birth rate with donor eggs."<BR/><BR/>Maybe you have just been unlucky. Nothing helps does it? It is just awful sometimes.Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-40019907142606990012008-10-02T23:21:00.000-04:002008-10-02T23:21:00.000-04:00I completely understand where you are now. I have...I completely understand where you are now. I have two straws left (two and three), and given my age, and my husband's age, I think this will be it. But I don't want it to be.<BR/><BR/>I did ask the donor embryo question on my listserv (FVED) once for someone else, and I will can give you the links if you want them; just e-mail me if you do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-75440776242995029982008-10-02T19:47:00.000-04:002008-10-02T19:47:00.000-04:00Think, heal and search your heart. Do what you nee...Think, heal and search your heart. Do what you need to, in the time you need to do it.<BR/>That doesn't sound like enough support, but I know nothing said is enough when your heart and arms are aching for a child to hold.<BR/>If you ever come to the time when you want to know more about donor embryos and/or donor eggs and the fun and games of these in Canada, poke me. I've been researching both options for a while (current on donor egg route).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14293332995122886819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26254663.post-60890511363886174282008-10-02T17:02:00.000-04:002008-10-02T17:02:00.000-04:00I am so sorry you are in this position. Please all...I am so sorry you are in this position. Please allow yourself some time to grieve. I really don't know how you feel but my heart goes out to you and V.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com